The following is a set of guidelines that are available for you to use if you are looking for help in accountability. Feel free to add to these to customize a personal program that meets your own specific needs.

Accountability Guidelines

  1. No personal friendships with anyone of the opposite sex.
  2. No texting with anyone of the opposite sex that is not business related.
  3. Do not be alone with anyone of the opposite sex except in public view. (School, Church, Marketplace, etc.)
  4. No counseling with anyone of the opposite sex.
  5. No business or ministry meeting alone with anyone of the opposite sex without your spouse or any other adult present.
  6. All personal computers will be monitored by xwatch from xxx.church.com and will report to your spouse and one member of Board of Directors of any organization that you work for.
  7. Be held accountable by at least one person or group.
  8. Have a personal quiet time every morning before doing any type of activity for the day.
  9. Find a way to encourage other people in these areas of purity.
  10. Meet monthly with someone who has been victorious through similar issues for encouragement.
  11. Write a note of encouragement to your spouse every week.
  12. Pray with your spouse every day.